I do not know what to do for my love?

[dark dream]

I feel lost for my lover I do not know how to deal with him. Seemed his depression over a year ago at first he thought I am not happy with him but i said always opposite to him and I am happy with him, but with the time taken to think I do not love him and hurt me with his words and insults he say i do not I love him and i destroy his life. i tried to fell him with my love with all ways i can do, but he designed on the contrary, and his negative ideas become more towards me and, unfortunately, I also became a cry a lot and neglected my work and my studies. now I do not want to leave him but i am afraid to be harmfull to him, I do not know what to do, I am all his family Please help me your comments

[sousui94]

Look I don't mean to sound harsh but he cannot keep treating you this way and you should not have to put up with it. you need to lay it out for him and tell him how you feel about how he is treating you. If you do not want to leave him then you have to make sure that you are prepared to do some major things to help him get through this. But first and foremost you have to take care of yourself. If this is no longer a good relationship for you and if it seems like he's not really looking to try to solve his issues then you have got to get out of there. You have to show him that you are there for him and you are in it together but if he doesn't want to face it then you are prepared to leave