All 3 are guys.
One was long gone before this decision. (He's the one who tried to pressure me for sex.)
The other always hinted about wanting sex, but I never paid him any mind. Frankly, I am tired of it. He actually even stopped for a while but is now very sometimes-ish with me [because he can't get his way]. (Later for his rass....)
The 3rd is the fella whom I seemed to get along with for a while, mainly due to compromise & simply ignoring some things ("tolerance", in a word).... [He was also long gone, & I'm glad I didn't fall for him being nice to me recently.]
The women were long gone because they showed their true selves sooner than the men did.....
& I don't want to hear anyone say that I'm "negative" because that's not what this is about at all. I'm tired of these people with their bullshoy. There's only so much a person can be tolerant of & can take.... I'm at my limit!
By the way, SMS stands for Swinging My (Mah) Sickle....
(It's too bad I can't make a career out of that)....