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My husband has been so obsessed with toys. He's bought hundreds of figureins, tens of control cars, tens of control bikes, now he's into helicopters and planes. I'm so sick and tired of his hobby. I understand that it is good to have a hobby but he's so obsessed with it that he'll not sleep at night and during the day, he'll be so sleepy when he's with us.

I'm so so so tired. When he told me that there'll be no more buying, I've decided to just accept it and help to pack the room. BUT this morning, i found a latest BIGGEST helipcoter hiding in the cupboard!

There is no way that he is going to change. And I just cannot keep tolerating his behaviour. Yes, everyone says, this is better than womanising. I'd rather he has a woman outside since it is more legitimate to split. Now my heart aches so so much for my children. I really really do not want them to have a broken family.

God, if it's not for my 2 boys, I would have just disappear!

Each of us has to decide for ourselves what it is we are willing to live with. Once we've made that decision it is up to us to consider all the people involed and affected. If the consequences are worth it to you, then you must do what you feel is right for you. Nobody else can make that decision for you or should judge you for having made it. You are the one who has to live with the consequences.