Depression breaking up marriage
Posted: Sat Apr 11, 2020 7:05 pm
I’ve been struggling with depression for nearly a decade now. When I met my husband my depression wasn’t too bad, so he didn’t know about it, but it got worse after having our first daughter. I am not close to my family and I have very few friends. No one, except my husband, knows about my depression now.
I’m going through a very hard time at the moment. I’m down, so nothing is good enough, I take pleasure in very few things and the only thing keeping me going is making sure my children have a good mum.
I try to act normal, but all this sadness, frustration and unhappiness I take out on my husband. I try not to, but when I’m like this, it feels like he is my enemy.
We argue, because I have high expectations of him and I feel he is a disappointment. Whenever I am down, those feeling resurface in me. Needless to say he is not very fond of me anymore and our marriage is breaking up.
I am the problem here, and I really want to turn this around. Has anyone been in this situation and have some advice?
I’m going through a very hard time at the moment. I’m down, so nothing is good enough, I take pleasure in very few things and the only thing keeping me going is making sure my children have a good mum.
I try to act normal, but all this sadness, frustration and unhappiness I take out on my husband. I try not to, but when I’m like this, it feels like he is my enemy.
We argue, because I have high expectations of him and I feel he is a disappointment. Whenever I am down, those feeling resurface in me. Needless to say he is not very fond of me anymore and our marriage is breaking up.
I am the problem here, and I really want to turn this around. Has anyone been in this situation and have some advice?