It's presents its head once again

[Tcrumpen]

Ok so been working 'my magic' on this once girl for the past couple of months and things seemed to be going quite well untill she popped the "I'm not into you in that way" card on me, once again another rejection to add to my list, lost count how many times this has happened, tbh i'm used to it and sick of it

Every girl i've been attracted to since i was intreseted in dating girls (18 or so, i'm 21 now) has rejected me, and it SUCKS i feel so lonley and at times really quite depressed that i have no-one to love (I use the term love loosley)

I feel like Klaus from American Dad "I just want to be held" i just wish that this 'one girl' would show her face soon as i'm sick of always being rejected and leading to have a few days (sometimes weeks) of feeling depressed, lonley and useless

I knowmost people say realationships arn't all they are cracked up to be, but to me it's one of the things i want most in my life, i've never really ha much female attention, and i just want someone i can shower with romance

I miss the intmacy one gets with a realationship; sexual and non-sexual



--- End of Mini Rant ---

[fallen]

rejection is a horrible thing . but life is not a straight road it is full of bumps, tailgaters , stop signs...etc.
it never runs smoothly, unless you invent a massive iron and miraculously iron the road in front of you, that would be pretty cool.
[ note to self buy big iron from hardware store ]
you will find some one or perhaps they will find you, it could be the girl in the coffee shop, you just never know.
do not lose hope , i wish you all the best.
take care

[4EverMe]

Hello,
I agree with fallen, though I don't know about the "big iron" idea. Haha. He's such a genius. That's for you, fallen. Heehee.

In my experience, relationships tend to happen when least expected, not when I was looking and hoping. Interestingly, many of the men I was interested in assumed I had a boyfriend, and they told me that this was why they'd never before approached me!

You will run into romance, at some point. Avoid looking desperate, as your strong wish for a relationship could be perceived this way. Maybe show some interest, but appear very confidant in yourself, as though you are just a little hard to get. This type of flirting will cause you to seem a bit mysterious, which can be intriguing to a lady. I know. I'm a lady, and it works. Consistently lugging around a large chunk of iron? This won't give you an aura of mystery, but it might work as a conversation starter. Haha! Uhhh...but I wouldn't really suggest it. Just be yourself, try my advice (if you wish), but be patient as well. One day, she will come around. Don't be pushy in any way, not that you are, but let things happen at a comfortable pace for the both of you. I wish you a great future love who will treat you right. Remember to be patient. Believe me- I know it can be difficult. Love will come at the time it is meant to, but it will.

[Tcrumpen]

Hello,
I agree with fallen, though I don't know about the "big iron" idea. Haha. He's such a genius. That's for you, fallen. Heehee.

In my experience, relationships tend to happen when least expected, not when I was looking and hoping. Interestingly, many of the men I was interested in assumed I had a boyfriend, and they told me that this was why they'd never before approached me!

You will run into romance, at some point. Avoid looking desperate, as your strong wish for a relationship could be perceived this way. Maybe show some interest, but appear very confidant in yourself, as though you are just a little hard to get. This type of flirting will cause you to seem a bit mysterious, which can be intriguing to a lady. I know. I'm a lady, and it works. Consistently lugging around a large chunk of iron? This won't give you an aura of mystery, but it might work as a conversation starter. Haha! Uhhh...but I wouldn't really suggest it. Just be yourself, try my advice (if you wish), but be patient as well. One day, she will come around. Don't be pushy in any way, not that you are, but let things happen at a comfortable pace for the both of you. I wish you a great future love who will treat you right. Remember to be patient. Believe me- I know it can be difficult. Love will come at the time it is meant to, but it will.

Problem is at this stage in my life i am kinda always looking, i've run out of places to meet single women, not saying that iw ould get all of em, i'm just saying that if i had some single women in my life wiuld at least give me something to strive for

People do tend to be surprised when i say i haven't every had a gf, ofc all these pople at my age having sex etc. just adds to the depression, ebacuse although i don't want to have sex with just anyone, there have been times where i've wanted to go to my friends and practially beg them to get me laid ... it's sad i know

[RafaBrazil]

You look a good guy, someone women really like, but there are exceptions like those, so think like that: It's they that are losing someone like you. You are better than them, that's it. Nowadays it's hard to find people who really cares about relationships, love, like you, so I know it's what everyone say and it's annoying, but, you will find someone good man. Besides, love is something we should sometimes care less, not let it get into our happiness, day living, etc. I've been suffering with one love, which was broken by my fault, but still I suffered. I know what it is like, but I find that we can get through it, going out, meeting friends, laughing, trying to care less as I said, and the most important, forget that bad past. Live it up

[Tcrumpen]

You look a good guy, someone women really like, but there are exceptions like those, so think like that: It's they that are losing someone like you. You are better than them, that's it. Nowadays it's hard to find people who really cares about relationships, love, like you, so I know it's what everyone say and it's annoying, but, you will find someone good man. Besides, love is something we should sometimes care less, not let it get into our happiness, day living, etc. I've been suffering with one love, which was broken by my fault, but still I suffered. I know what it is like, but I find that we can get through it, going out, meeting friends, laughing, trying to care less as I said, and the most important, forget that bad past. Live it up

Without out trying to sound arogant and cocky, yes i am a great guy who (apprently according to a few of my friends) is perfect boyfriend material, however despite me being a great guy having all the right things, kind, compassionate, caring etc. can't seem to land a girl

Should note i'm not doing the 'nice guy' thing anymore