woman problems

[daniel444]

I'm feeling terrible and for the past two months i've been feeling very depressed. I have feelings for a girl who is a really good friend of mine and has been for like two years and i've never told her how i feel because she has a boyfriend who is a really good guy and a friend of mine. But these feeling have just been building up inside me and I want to tell her but I don't want to hurt our friendship and its just driving me insane. I didn't sleep last night just thinking about confessing everything but today i'm too worried to do it. And I don't even want to be her boyfriend I just want to stay friends like we are i just cant shut up these feelings. I need help

[daniel444]

its been affecting me pretty badly, today i had to slam on my breaks because i wasn't paying attention 4 times. and i'm having a really hard time putting any effort into anything because i just think about her

[Warmsoul/Jeanie13]

Hi daniel444,

Sorry I can't give you answers to this. All I can suggest is consider what you have with this girl and her boyfriend. Both friends to you. Consider if it is worth giving that up for feelings you aren't sure of at the moment.

Best I can say. Do be careful and take care of yourself.

Warmsoul

[daniel444]

but i still wonder if its wrong to keep it a secret, if my friend should know i like his girlfriend. he trusts me and i'm keeping this a secret from him, then if the girl would redefine our friendship after i tell her then maybe she deserves to be able to redefine it. and still maybe its better that she is able to have a male friend who doesn't fall for her since she's such a nice girl almost every guy she gets close to can't help but like her, but which i wish i can be that friend who doesn't fall for her and at least i can pretend to be

[Warmsoul/Jeanie13]

daniel444,

Does your seeing their relationship, perhaps you wanting the same, have anything to do with your feelings?

How important is the friendship that you share with them?

They could understand, or it could cost you the friendships. Once done, no turning back.

Just a few things to consider. The answers lie within yourself.

Warmie