biggest mistake of my life
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biggest mistake of my life
my friend whom i had trusted the most .. had done a fake friendship with me.. she with her boyfriendy disrespect me in front of everyone.. i am a simple kind of girl.. usually not talk to boys .. but her boyfriend shouts at me in a very bad manner in front of my hoste in front of every onel.. they open my secret to every one.. they make a fun of me and my feelings my friendship.. because of this my dear friends and my family members including my mom get against me and the only thing that remains in my life was me.. alone // many days i had passed by just crying and lying down on bed.. many negative thoughts of ending my life had came to my mind.. they are very clever .. and i am not even succeed to save my own respect.. this incident hurts me a lot.. even some time today i cry.. but i take that as a turning point of my life.. i think that it was the biggest mistake of my life and i took my mistakes as a stepping stone. i hate them.. i hate them with my heart.. but then i decided not to talk to them ever.. i stop talking to any one.. i use that period to overcome my weakness and to make myself more stronger.. i decide to regain what i had once lost .. and this time i was true to my self.. whatever happens to me or to my life.. i will always try to learn from my past and to use that in my future to make me a better ME.. surely it will be very diffcult but not more than that from which i am coming...
You have said a lot there siadamia. One thought that occurs to me is that secrets are just waiting to be told; and if you tell a secret it's not a secret any more. So your secret is no longer and you don''t have to concern yourself with hiding it. I'd like to think that brings at least a bit of relief.
I understand how it hurts to be embarassed and your trust betrayed. But mistakes are inevitable and essential. We simply can't learn without them. Yes they are stepping stone; and as such I often look forward to them because it shows I'm moving forward. It's important to continue trusting in people. Part of what you have learned is that you can trust in actions far better than words.
Learning to trust and accept people for who they really are and not what we want them to be; it's a difficult lesson which is taking me many mistakes. I think you should pat yourself on the shoulder. Are are becoming a better stronger you.
I understand how it hurts to be embarassed and your trust betrayed. But mistakes are inevitable and essential. We simply can't learn without them. Yes they are stepping stone; and as such I often look forward to them because it shows I'm moving forward. It's important to continue trusting in people. Part of what you have learned is that you can trust in actions far better than words.
Learning to trust and accept people for who they really are and not what we want them to be; it's a difficult lesson which is taking me many mistakes. I think you should pat yourself on the shoulder. Are are becoming a better stronger you.
thanku for ur reply..
there are lots of thing that i wanted to share thats why i wrote that much. . yes u r ri8.. but for me the luck of friendship is very bad.. it is very difficult for me now.. to have a trust on someone.. again.. as it hurts a lot when people went away.. leaving you behind.. all alone.. without thinking about u.. so i have decided not to make best friend again and not to trust anybody that much.. but that doesn't mean that i have no friends.. i have many friends.. but they are just like every one..
now i just want to improve myself.. and make my self happy..
and i will try to accept people for who they really are and not what we want them to be ..
there are lots of thing that i wanted to share thats why i wrote that much. . yes u r ri8.. but for me the luck of friendship is very bad.. it is very difficult for me now.. to have a trust on someone.. again.. as it hurts a lot when people went away.. leaving you behind.. all alone.. without thinking about u.. so i have decided not to make best friend again and not to trust anybody that much.. but that doesn't mean that i have no friends.. i have many friends.. but they are just like every one..
now i just want to improve myself.. and make my self happy..
and i will try to accept people for who they really are and not what we want them to be ..
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