im in trouble...*may be triggering*

[Sara_pain]

went out to get groceries...ran into my abusive ex....he threatened me...and...did something...went to the hospital and all but the police cant find him.. my god why does this kind of stuff always happen to me..what the hell did i do to deserve all of this???? i cant do it anymore...going to end up sitting in this damn house wasting away...its more than i can handle now...i cant do it anymore.... :'(

[crystalgaze]

((((((((((((((((( Sara )))))))))))))))))))))))))))))


You didn't do any thing to deserve ANY of it. I am wondering: Have you ever taken self-defense classes? If not, do you think it is something you might see if you can do? Maybe there will be something that could help? Woman's Coalition?

I have never really been a supporter of this but perhaps it's time to get weapons training.... I would take lessons on how to shoot a gun & keep one on me at all times....

Sweet lady, are you all right? If you went to the hospital, does that mean he hurt you? He didn't cut you or any thing like that, right?

Please take care how best you can.... I know I would be at my limit with every thing you have said.... I would want to stop being victimized by others & be prepared to take matters into my own hands. You are on record with the police enough times with every thing that has happened.

Goodness gracious....

[Sara_pain]

didnt cut me.. hit me in the ribs and did something..inappropriate...

[Baz]

Hug Sara,

Consider taking self defense classes and calling in favors, I know it isn't right, but I had a friend who was once sexually assaulted by an ex, and she called in some favors and he attempted to leave the country the next day, with the police catching him at the airport.

Certainly get some self defense, and professional support if you feel you need it, but you will be so surprised how many people you have if you open up to those you truly trust.