need advice

[Artemis91]

So I recently moved in with my boyfriend of 5 years and got away from my abusive family. At first I was so happy I was with the one I love and now I'm safe but lately I've noticed a change in him. For about a month now he's been cold and I find myself constantly feeling hurt and broken. For example we have insane arguments like I find it uncomfortable to sleep in pants and before it wasn't a problem but one day out of the blue it pissed him off so much or he use to let me lay my head on his lap every now and then but now it irritates him so much if I even ask to do it... This weekend he blew up on me because I asked him if we could cuddle and watch a movie or tv. I know he's not into cuddling but I didn't think he would react like that... Every time we have a argument his new thing is "if you don't like it leave". I don't know what to do I've tried talking to him witch always ends badly with him more pissed off. I've tried asking him if there was something going on that's stressing him out. I'm at a loss and on my last straw... I love him very much and I want to work it out and lord knows I'm trying but I don't want to hurt anymore.

[heather.haywire]

My advice. If he doesn't change soon (and I mean real soon) I would leave. But that's just me, sucks he's acting this way, but of course the worst part is the 5 years you've been together. I think you deserve better. If he won't listen and let you help him then it's a lost cause. When this happened with my bf a few years ago, I broke down and moved in with some guy that I hated. But it did make my bf finally take what I was saying seriously so he stopped hurting my feelings. However, when I moved in with the other guy it was out of desperation and I WOULD NOT recommend it. Unless it's with a nice guy that you actually wanna be with. Hope you get your soul mate back to being himself, and if not then maybe he's not the one or your soul mate after all. My prayers are with you.