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Id like talk to some or get help answer from someone at all it buging me long time.

Men that have one night stand or even girl i guess and fling or meaningless fun and reject someone esle how would you feel i feel ugly worthless and think im that bad like im not good enough but girl you never see again is even if ts easy its like i like you more so i get hurt, and still be more happy to have that chance they got even worse when having fun with girl and become more like im not cool enough for that fun if id lie betend id not fancy you i get it, i mean sick to think sleep around with anyone but i'm so ugly to even be friends and date, and them morn about being alone
Rejecting me then flirt with girl in nightclub you dont know never see again.
dont even both with my looks and weight cause i guess i'm that ugly.
have anyone felt the same.

It's a lesson you have to learn unfortunately.

Don't have casual sex if you are looking for something more than that.

You are pretty unlikely to meet the guy/girl of your dreams that will treat you how you deserve to be treated, when you meet them in a night club and you are both making decisions that you might not make when you're sober. Know what you are getting yourself into, and know what to expect and you won't get hurt. There's nothing wrong with a one-night stand so long as you are reasonable about what to expect and know what you are getting yourself into.

Having said that I'm sorry you've been hurt and feel so badly about yourself. That's something the depression won't help, but it's something you can get help for. You can talk about your feelings here and ways to help yourself feel better.

Be gentle with yourself! Give yourself some love, I'm sure you are a lovely caring person. Just need to believe it yourself a little.

Feel free to keep posting, see you around

jj

Hello Learntobelonely,
I'm sorry you are feeling alone. It seems as though you're looking for love in all the wrong places. (as the song goes) Well, I've been there myself. When I was in my mid-teens, I was kicked out of the house because of not getting along with a family member. For years, I was shunned by my parents. My brother and sisters wanted contact with me but felt guilt was placed on them for this. When you are suddenly abandoned by those you love most, you tend to seek love to fill that void you have inside. (even unconsciously) There was a time in my life when I loved to frequent nightclubs. Let me tell you...There are many who go only to GET LAID. There are men who will tell you anything. Women too.

You've got to worry about STD's etc. And morals? It isn't right to just sleep around, nor is it safe. I'm not saying I haven't fallen victim to smooth words. But you never know who you might go home with!! Be Careful. If you like music and dancing, don't go "expecting" love... Elsewhere?