Postby aiko137 » Mon Apr 13, 2009 9:13 pm
what Michael said to me:
hey, if you and me have a problem, that's fine. but don't go off and say that it's [my girlfriend's] fault that me and you odn't talk anymore.
you wanna know why we don't talk???? it's because everytime we do, you always bring up the problems that you miss me, and then you start getting sad, then start asking about [my girlfriend's], then start blaming me for your shit.
it's you that always brings her into our conversations, not me. so stop saying it's the other way around
if you would just leave it be that it wouldn't be a problem, but you never do that. you havr to keep bring it up, keep depressing yourself, and keep getting me pissed off
maybe if you just let it go, all would be fine. have you ever thought of (or god forbid) tried that?!??!
no, instead all you keep doing, is saying how the world is falling down around YOUR ears, keep depressing YOURself, and trying to take YOUR problems out on me!
i don't mind helping you out, but theirs a difference between getting help, and taking it out on someone. a BIG one.
so just leave it be, and there won't be a problem!
and stop saying that [my girlfriend] if taking me away from you. because you know it's not true. you're just looking for a finger to point.
here's a quick run down.
you bring it up, you depress yourself, you get mad at yourself, determine its not your fault, it must be the other persons, take it out on that person, and if failing that, try to make that person feel bad for yoy
i have an uncle that was supporting three kids PLUS me and himself on a dissability paycheck with a broken arm. and he never complained 10% as much as you do. so don't try to make it sound like your shit is the only one that matters or that you have it the worse.
i'm willing to talk this out with you, but next time we talk, their are some things i need to make quite clear to you. because you seem to think i abandoned you or something.
here's a hint... i went to wisconsin. did you ever stop and think that maybe T-mobile (my cell phone provider) doesn't offer coverage in wisconsin??? that maybe i never got any phones calls from ANYONE while i was in wisconsin??/?
get the facts before you accuse.
No, I cannot just drop this thing and act like it has never happened. I just can't let it go, no matter how hard I try, it always comes back. And what his girlfriend said to me:
Ok, I have tried to be nice and stay out of whatever problems you and Michael are having, but you seriously are crossing the line. I have ABSOLUTELY NOTHING to do with your relationship with Michael. If he's not talking to you, then it's probably something you did, not me. We don't even talk about you! Maybe you should stop calling him and then hanging up, you're an adult, act like one. Also, you're not the only one with problems so you're not going to get a pity party from me. If you don't have any friends, once again, check to see what you are doing. Stop blaming others!
I haven't taken anyone away from you, maybe you're the one who has pushed him away. You're not an innocent party here so don't try to act like you are. If you and Michael are having problems then that is something that was caused by either one of you or the both of you, not anyone else. It's up to you two to fix it and leave me out of it.
Please don't ever contact me again. Like I said, I was trying to be nice and stay out of this but you're bringing me into this and if you're going to try to blame me for all your problems instead of being an adult and admitting your mistakes, then you're not going to like anything I have to say.
