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blurryface
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I want to help my friend

Postby blurryface » Thu Aug 20, 2015 1:31 pm

Ok, well it's hard for me to deal with my life but it doesn't matter as long as my closest friend want to kill himself. I don't know what to do to help him. He is going through really tough times. Since I know him he always tell me that he isn't happy. Please people tell me what to do because if I don't help him I wouldn't be able to help myself. It is really serious, I can't sleep, I can't stop imagine the worst. Probably you will tell that I'm the one who knows him best, but everything is so complicated.I hope I'll recieve some advice how to act. I need help. Please!

kellylouise2001
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Postby kellylouise2001 » Fri Aug 21, 2015 12:14 am

:cry: :cry: just tell him that everything is gonna be ok. i know it isnt that simple but he might just need a shoulder 2 cry on. if he is feeling like that he must be really low so he is probably feeling alone and worthless. you just have 2 be there no matter what he needs you xxx. i really dont know if there is anyway to escape but ive been told loads by people that its gonna get better. the only thing i hate is when someone says they r gonna b there but when things get hard they run away coz it scares them. you are not alone in this i love u all

blurryface
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Postby blurryface » Fri Aug 21, 2015 2:07 am

That was my first thought when I understood that his I don't know maybe condition is so bad. I have to be there for him! He has told me things that no one knows about him, I feel like he trust me but sometimes in his anger he reject my help. And it hurts so much to watch him struggle. He is the only one that understand whats happening in my head and when I see him helpless I lost myself. All I want is he to be ok. Sometimes I think that we both should visit a psychologist together or just to ask for help, but I'm pretty sure he will reject that idea and to be hones there is no way to do this alone by myself . I'm afraid of the thought of sharing my story in front someone i don't know, but for him I'll do it. 😖😖

Anyway my friend thank you for the post, I hope you're ok, love you!


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