Hi,
I have no advice for you ... but I am interested in what you think could be possible next steps. How many different plans can you think of?
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- Wed Jun 01, 2016 9:28 am
- Forum: New Member Introductions
- Topic: Just losing it in NC
- Replies: 11
- Views: 6631
- Wed Jun 01, 2016 9:25 am
- Forum: Your Story
- Topic: Advice needed (triggering material)
- Replies: 3
- Views: 3219
Existing in the moment sounds like mindfulness to me. Have you read anything about it? You sound like a smart person who is lost but searching. Mindfulness allows you to pick a strategy that can work for you. But since you are lost it is hard to not panic. When all else fails I try to do something I...
- Wed Jun 01, 2016 9:18 am
- Forum: Your Story
- Topic: What have I become
- Replies: 9
- Views: 5170
I hate depression it makes you think things like this: What have I become? I cannot remember the last time I felt true happiness. Did I ever feel it at all? Its all blurry now. You have not become anything ... every moment in the future has possibility, but you are right, it seems like every moment ...
- Wed Jun 01, 2016 9:11 am
- Forum: Your Story
- Topic: lonely and lost
- Replies: 14
- Views: 8543
GlassHeart, ChocolateIsLove, This looks like a popular thread. I would like to share two things I've recently read from a book by Gordon Livingston (a psychotherapist) called Too Soon Old, Too Late Smart. First, Dr. Livingston asks us to think about why the nature of change seems negative. Bad thing...
- Wed May 25, 2016 11:49 am
- Forum: Other Thoughts, Feelings and Messages
- Topic: does anyone else feel this way?
- Replies: 4
- Views: 6131
Hi ChocolateIsLove, I agree with you that there is a contradiction between Not worrying (and overdoing worrying is to me just another word for anxiety ...) and choice and control. I think I've come by my anxiety naturally, and biologically. In the 2005 or so I got to drive my father to inpatient car...
- Wed May 25, 2016 11:40 am
- Forum: Other Thoughts, Feelings and Messages
- Topic: I Don't Understand
- Replies: 1
- Views: 4070
- Wed May 25, 2016 11:39 am
- Forum: Your Story
- Topic: lonely and lost
- Replies: 14
- Views: 8543
- Wed May 25, 2016 11:34 am
- Forum: Living with Depression and other Related Health Concerns
- Topic: Im not suicidal, yet....
- Replies: 3
- Views: 3323
Hey Win7, Do you read the other posts too? This is a great place to be negative, and it is nice to see that you posted when you felt better too. Please write as much as you can. I don't really like the chat rooms, but I like the discussions on here. I am really busy with circumstances ... but I hope...
- Wed May 25, 2016 11:31 am
- Forum: Living with Depression and other Related Health Concerns
- Topic: It's been a while, so I figured an update was in order
- Replies: 4
- Views: 3939
Hi KS81072, My in-laws are having medical problems, so I've been over there a lot and they don't have internet. How I wish they had internet .... Anyway, I like your statement: As I said, I'm confident at this point that I will love this woman to my last breath, but it's not meant to be. Just someth...
- Wed May 25, 2016 11:21 am
- Forum: New Member Introductions
- Topic: Newbie here
- Replies: 2
- Views: 2301
- Fri May 20, 2016 11:21 am
- Forum: Your Story
- Topic: It's not always a bad thing
- Replies: 3
- Views: 3324
- Fri May 20, 2016 11:10 am
- Forum: Your Story
- Topic: lonely and lost
- Replies: 14
- Views: 8543
Hi ChocolateisLove :D, I've been really busy for the past two weeks. There is turbulence in the lives of people around me, but I am trying to do a good job keeping just the right distance ... not disengaging, but not making their problems my problems when there is nothing I can do. I didn't go read ...
- Fri May 20, 2016 10:59 am
- Forum: Living with Depression and other Related Health Concerns
- Topic: It's been a while, so I figured an update was in order
- Replies: 4
- Views: 3939
Ks81072, Thanks for the update. I hope that soon you will be able to read your post with the same objectivity you expressed about re-connecting. Achievement vs. Last Ditch Effort are just the color of lipstick you put on the pig ... The important thing is TO DO, To Be. I think it might be an interes...
- Fri May 20, 2016 10:51 am
- Forum: Your Story
- Topic: Who hates me more?
- Replies: 3
- Views: 3347
You ask: What am I supposed to do when I hate myself more than imaginable, but have no faith that anyone would actually, legitimately care? I don't know what you are supposed to do ... because the answer is up to you. When I read your question I thought about The Wizard of Oz Movie ... The scarecrow...
- Wed May 11, 2016 10:10 am
- Forum: Your Story
- Topic: It's not always a bad thing
- Replies: 3
- Views: 3324
Moleman, There are other posts like yours on here. Please find them, and acknowledge them. You sound like a very wise man, and your efforts will bring them back to the attention of others. If you look at the statistics on here you will see that many people read the new posts everyday, but only a few...