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by Tom57
Sat Apr 26, 2025 5:26 pm
Forum: Other Thoughts, Feelings and Messages
Topic: Springtime Depression
Replies: 2
Views: 952

Springtime Depression

It's springtime now. Time when flowers grow, trees bud, and grass turns green. Daylight is longer and it's warmer outside. That's nice, but for me I feel like my depression increases at this time of year. I tend to like Nov. - March, but not springtime. One good reason I feel that way is because, ov...
by Tom57
Thu Apr 10, 2025 10:01 am
Forum: New Member Introductions
Topic: New to This
Replies: 4
Views: 8455

Re: New to This

To CR50 - You posted about two years ago. How are doing now?

For what you posted, I feel the same way. I can't offer any suggestions because I don't know either. Yesterday I made a post on a thread on here - "It's Destroying Me Being So Alone".
by Tom57
Wed Apr 09, 2025 5:59 pm
Forum: Other Thoughts, Feelings and Messages
Topic: it's destroying me being so alone
Replies: 14
Views: 8525

Re: it's destroying me being so alone

It's been a while since I've posted on here. I've mentioned previously that I was having to take some tests as there were some concerns with my health. It was mainly about the thyroid. Well, as it turned out, everything's fine. All tests came out negative. However I feel like I really am alone. I on...
by Tom57
Sun Mar 23, 2025 1:03 pm
Forum: Other Thoughts, Feelings and Messages
Topic: How to be Happy eliminate sadness and pain
Replies: 2
Views: 2193

Re: How to be Happy eliminate sadness and pain

Lots of times I feel sad and anxious. I don't know what it is. Maybe my brain structure has changed? I used to be so happy deep inside all of the time. Not anymore, even when something nice happens. As far as anxiety goes, perhaps it could be that I have accumulated so much in circumstances and info...
by Tom57
Sun Mar 02, 2025 1:10 pm
Forum: Other Thoughts, Feelings and Messages
Topic: Life Is Just Going So Downhill
Replies: 5
Views: 5433

Re: Life Is Just Going So Downhill

"Well, tomorrow is the "big" day for me as I will have a biopsy." I had the biopsy and got the results. It's OK, so I'm happy about it. But the good feeling about it didn't last long as things in general had taken a turn for the weird. It's like I'm under some kind of curse. Goo...
by Tom57
Mon Feb 17, 2025 11:49 am
Forum: Other Thoughts, Feelings and Messages
Topic: Life Is Just Going So Downhill
Replies: 5
Views: 5433

Re: Life Is Just Going So Downhill

Well, tomorrow is the "big" day for me as I will have a biopsy. Yesterday, I had a setback. I went bike riding and it was going great; and then suddenly, my front wheel locked up as I was riding. Fortunately I didn't come to a sudden stop which that could have been bad. Also it happened cl...
by Tom57
Sun Feb 16, 2025 2:16 pm
Forum: Other Thoughts, Feelings and Messages
Topic: Inactive account
Replies: 1
Views: 1725

Re: Inactive account

I am personally glad to see you on here.
by Tom57
Sat Feb 15, 2025 3:33 pm
Forum: Other Thoughts, Feelings and Messages
Topic: it's destroying me being so alone
Replies: 14
Views: 8525

Re: it's destroying me being so alone

I'm sorry that's the case. It's no good when you're physical health isn't well, it doesn't help you feel any better emotionally. That's the worst. I hope you feel better soon Tom. Always wishing the best for you. Thank you so much for your nice reply. Physically I feel great and don't feel like the...
by Tom57
Tue Feb 11, 2025 10:52 pm
Forum: Other Thoughts, Feelings and Messages
Topic: it's destroying me being so alone
Replies: 14
Views: 8525

Re: it's destroying me being so alone

She has agonized me for so long and I let it happen for too long. She is totally selfish, as she mocks me when I correct her. I have told her how I feel but it does no good. I'd rather be all done with this "patching up" stuff, because being told that is making me feel guilty. Also I'm fee...
by Tom57
Tue Feb 11, 2025 11:38 am
Forum: Other Thoughts, Feelings and Messages
Topic: it's destroying me being so alone
Replies: 14
Views: 8525

Re: it's destroying me being so alone

"By the way Is there any way at all you could patch things up with your sister?" I guess I should have said, "she had upset like she has does so many times and I finally had to let her go" instead of saying, "we had a fallout" . She has been so aggravating and selfish ...
by Tom57
Mon Feb 10, 2025 10:45 pm
Forum: Other Thoughts, Feelings and Messages
Topic: Life Is Just Going So Downhill
Replies: 5
Views: 5433

Re: Life Is Just Going So Downhill

"Are you looking forward to your biopsy?" For the most part, I would say no. I'm very anxious about it and feeling like it could be cancer. This thyroid issue was totally unexpected. I had a physical exam last month and the thyroid area seemed OK at that time. The blood test was normal an...
by Tom57
Mon Feb 10, 2025 5:42 pm
Forum: Other Thoughts, Feelings and Messages
Topic: Tired
Replies: 0
Views: 1838

Re: Tired

To Feelingsareweird - much to my surprise, I've been sleeping OK but some nights I don't sleep well. The other things you're saying is so true-to-life for me. Especially needing friends (in person) and motivation.
by Tom57
Mon Feb 10, 2025 5:37 pm
Forum: Other Thoughts, Feelings and Messages
Topic: it's destroying me being so alone
Replies: 14
Views: 8525

Re: it's destroying me being so alone

I feel very much alone, too, myself. I have one friend and he's very old and not functioning well. He can be nice to talk to, but there are times he acts strange. Also he can be critical and hurtful to me at times. Perhaps it could be because he's not well. And now I have a possibility of a health c...
by Tom57
Sat Feb 08, 2025 5:40 pm
Forum: Other Thoughts, Feelings and Messages
Topic: Life Is Just Going So Downhill
Replies: 5
Views: 5433

Re: Life Is Just Going So Downhill

TRIGGER WARNING Quote from my OP . I have some doctor appointments that I'm dreading. I also have a scan scheduled to check up on a possible health issue. And I'm all alone in this. It's been interesting for me lately. I had a full-body scan last week. It was good news and bad news. The good news w...
by Tom57
Tue Feb 04, 2025 11:42 am
Forum: Other Thoughts, Feelings and Messages
Topic: Holiday Depression & Feeling Lonely
Replies: 6
Views: 3630

Re: Holiday Depression & Feeling Lonely

Thank you for asking me. I'm doing OK for the most part. At least I'm happier now that the holidays are long over with. I guess there's still Valentine's Day coming up but that day doesn't phase me. I still struggle with depression and I probably will for the rest of my life. I hope you're doing well.

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