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by Tom57
Tue Jun 10, 2025 4:31 pm
Forum: Other Thoughts, Feelings and Messages
Topic: How sad
Replies: 4
Views: 215

Re: How sad

I'm sorry you feel this way. I'm feeling the same, so all I could say is, "join the club" Maybe that doesn't make you feel better, but I feel the same and I guess many others do, too. I'm sure many others do even though it looks like they have it all together. I feel like, especially latel...
by Tom57
Fri May 30, 2025 10:59 pm
Forum: Other Thoughts, Feelings and Messages
Topic: it's destroying me being so alone
Replies: 21
Views: 14854

Re: it's destroying me being so alone

I let the only friend I have go today. To start off with, he recovered very well after the fall he had a couple of weeks ago, and that was impressive to me. However I let him because we had a terrible fight over the phone. I feel bad about this. So many times he and I have had arguments and fights a...
by Tom57
Wed May 21, 2025 1:31 pm
Forum: Other Thoughts, Feelings and Messages
Topic: Springtime Depression
Replies: 6
Views: 5404

Re: Springtime Depression

Thank you Jenniekimberly for your nice reply. What you said is exactly how I feel. And now I'm really hating spring. It's noisy outside with all kinds of construction work; and parking near my place is harder. I don't have assigned parking. All kinds of construction workers come to work, and once I ...
by Tom57
Wed May 21, 2025 1:23 pm
Forum: Other Thoughts, Feelings and Messages
Topic: it's destroying me being so alone
Replies: 21
Views: 14854

Re: it's destroying me being so alone

Thank you so much Kardep for your nice reply. My friend is being released tomorrow from the skilled nursing care facility, so I'm pretty happy about it. I've called him while he was there but the phone calls have been limited. Plus there was no privacy in talking to him. However he will have some in...
by Tom57
Fri May 16, 2025 10:46 pm
Forum: Other Thoughts, Feelings and Messages
Topic: it's destroying me being so alone
Replies: 21
Views: 14854

Re: it's destroying me being so alone

My friend seems to be doing better now. He and I have been talking lately, which is a pretty good sign. We talked briefly yesterday and for a while last night. He and I talked for a while today also. He's in less pain and is enthusiastic about the physical therapy sessions. He has some ups and downs...
by Tom57
Mon May 12, 2025 11:15 pm
Forum: Other Thoughts, Feelings and Messages
Topic: it's destroying me being so alone
Replies: 21
Views: 14854

Re: it's destroying me being so alone

My friend is at a skilled care nursing home now and in tremendous pain. He and talked briefly today and I feel bad for him. He said that he may come back home but there's no telling when. Even if he fully recovers, which that would be a miracle, he won't be the same. So it's very sad. If worse comes...
by Tom57
Sun May 11, 2025 1:39 pm
Forum: Other Thoughts, Feelings and Messages
Topic: it's destroying me being so alone
Replies: 21
Views: 14854

Re: it's destroying me being so alone

As of now, the only friend I have had a couple of falls and is in the hospital emergency room now. It's not looking good. Losing him is going to be devastating. I don't make friends easily. I find myself feeling tense. At where I live it's hot now. Doors and windows have to be opened for me to feel ...
by Tom57
Sun May 04, 2025 3:41 pm
Forum: Other Thoughts, Feelings and Messages
Topic: Springtime Depression
Replies: 6
Views: 5404

Re: Springtime Depression

I'm still feeling it now. A typical day at where I live is like this - it's cloudy in the morning and then it clears up in the afternoon. And then, in the early evening, it clouds up, and it stays that way until the next day in the afternoon. It's like "rinse and repeat". I'm realizing now...
by Tom57
Sat Apr 26, 2025 5:26 pm
Forum: Other Thoughts, Feelings and Messages
Topic: Springtime Depression
Replies: 6
Views: 5404

Springtime Depression

It's springtime now. Time when flowers grow, trees bud, and grass turns green. Daylight is longer and it's warmer outside. That's nice, but for me I feel like my depression increases at this time of year. I tend to like Nov. - March, but not springtime. One good reason I feel that way is because, ov...
by Tom57
Thu Apr 10, 2025 10:01 am
Forum: New Member Introductions
Topic: New to This
Replies: 4
Views: 9121

Re: New to This

To CR50 - You posted about two years ago. How are doing now?

For what you posted, I feel the same way. I can't offer any suggestions because I don't know either. Yesterday I made a post on a thread on here - "It's Destroying Me Being So Alone".
by Tom57
Wed Apr 09, 2025 5:59 pm
Forum: Other Thoughts, Feelings and Messages
Topic: it's destroying me being so alone
Replies: 21
Views: 14854

Re: it's destroying me being so alone

It's been a while since I've posted on here. I've mentioned previously that I was having to take some tests as there were some concerns with my health. It was mainly about the thyroid. Well, as it turned out, everything's fine. All tests came out negative. However I feel like I really am alone. I on...
by Tom57
Sun Mar 23, 2025 1:03 pm
Forum: Other Thoughts, Feelings and Messages
Topic: How to be Happy eliminate sadness and pain
Replies: 2
Views: 2847

Re: How to be Happy eliminate sadness and pain

Lots of times I feel sad and anxious. I don't know what it is. Maybe my brain structure has changed? I used to be so happy deep inside all of the time. Not anymore, even when something nice happens. As far as anxiety goes, perhaps it could be that I have accumulated so much in circumstances and info...
by Tom57
Sun Mar 02, 2025 1:10 pm
Forum: Other Thoughts, Feelings and Messages
Topic: Life Is Just Going So Downhill
Replies: 5
Views: 6052

Re: Life Is Just Going So Downhill

"Well, tomorrow is the "big" day for me as I will have a biopsy." I had the biopsy and got the results. It's OK, so I'm happy about it. But the good feeling about it didn't last long as things in general had taken a turn for the weird. It's like I'm under some kind of curse. Goo...
by Tom57
Mon Feb 17, 2025 11:49 am
Forum: Other Thoughts, Feelings and Messages
Topic: Life Is Just Going So Downhill
Replies: 5
Views: 6052

Re: Life Is Just Going So Downhill

Well, tomorrow is the "big" day for me as I will have a biopsy. Yesterday, I had a setback. I went bike riding and it was going great; and then suddenly, my front wheel locked up as I was riding. Fortunately I didn't come to a sudden stop which that could have been bad. Also it happened cl...
by Tom57
Sun Feb 16, 2025 2:16 pm
Forum: Other Thoughts, Feelings and Messages
Topic: Inactive account
Replies: 1
Views: 2194

Re: Inactive account

I am personally glad to see you on here.

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