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My husband has been so obsessed with toys. He's bought hundreds of figureins, tens of control cars, tens of control bikes, now he's into helicopters and planes. I'm so sick and tired of his hobby. I understand that it is good to have a hobby but he's so obsessed with it that he'll not sleep at night...

thank you obayan ;) you are absolute right. i should not compare my son to his uncle. i have concientiously told myself that. And when i stopped doing that, i was a better mother . Then the uncle started to create trouble again recently and once again the cycle started. I am now working doubly hard ...

hi, i'm a stay at hom mother of 2 boys - 10 & 5. i've been married for 16 yrs. however, i never ever felt loved by my husband. He's a nice man, everybody says so & that i'm so lucky to have married him. But, to me, he's always about himself himself himself. Whenever he's not working, he's al...

yes, today, it just prove to me that i'm right about my relationship. i've always feel that i'm very blessed to have married my husband for the 15 years. i still probably am very lucky. we're still together. but i've not been optimistic. i'm not a pessimist. i'm just being practical. he has never lo...

thank you so much for the warm welcome ;) yes, venting does help. I know there's no solution to my situation, despite the constant communication with my hb / my mum and my kids. I can never change other people. i can only learn to adapt and be patient, patient, patient. Only time can help ie when my...

hi there, i'm 39, SAH mum of 2 young boys. i've been feeling very very tired. i'm so tired of playing the role of a mum - gotta take care of e'thing of my kids - food, play, education etc etc. And i'm tired of playing the role of a wife & assistant - my hb is self employed so gotta help him with...