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debern
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Really!!!

Postby debern » Sat Jul 05, 2014 1:46 pm


How hard is it to make friends?
My premier yr in de university is gettx over n NT a single new friend. Whts wrong with me, my highschool mates have made a lot of friends here but I can't seem to make a single friend. Whts wrong with me??

CrazyKiss
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Postby CrazyKiss » Fri Jan 30, 2015 12:50 am

Im sure its not u to the reason why ur not making any friends. Some people can make friends pretty easily and others need time. You proberly just need time. Im not sure exactly what the situation is like for u but all I know is that if ur waiting for other people to speak to u then I do believe thats where ur going wrong.

This would be a good example to when ur on class and ur sat by a potential friend. You just need to start the coversation like Hi there, I'm debren. Whats ur name? You could then tell them a bit about u and why ur on this course. Then u could ask them a couple of questions. This is just brief conversation and so if u do that then ur gonna get a responce back and the more u do it the likely ur make friends.

You have to sometimes put urself out there. I know it could be hard at first but the more people u talk to the bigger chance ur confidence grows. You will then feel much better about urself, happy and postive knowing u can do anything if u put urself out there and fight for it.

Therefore if u have any problems in the mean time then u know u can talk on here or if u want to looks to be confident then use the internet and type confidence building and it should give u more information about it. It's always good to prepare and take a few deep breaths and try and stay postive.

I hope that helps. Remember to keep reaching out.

Good Luck

Prycejosh1987
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Re: Really!!!

Postby Prycejosh1987 » Sun Jun 07, 2020 1:43 pm

debern wrote:
How hard is it to make friends?
My premier yr in de university is gettx over n NT a single new friend. Whts wrong with me, my highschool mates have made a lot of friends here but I can't seem to make a single friend. Whts wrong with me??

I think maybe your not looking for it. Most of the time you have to go for what you want in life, and it wont come to you. Go out on socialise. I was an introvert. Until i broke out of my shyness and starting collecting girls numbers, and talking to them. Things went from strength to strength from that.


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