Girlfriend of 1 and a half years ended it. Help!
Posted: Mon Feb 29, 2016 7:27 pm
Soon after we first met she revealed to me that she suffers from depression and is seeing a counsellor, and a number of times over the course of our relationship she would seemingly break down crying on a number of different occasions. Of course I'd comfort her as much as possible and let her know that I'd be there for her no matter what. She'd always assure me it was nothing related to me, but she didn't know what it was.
I noticed her becoming more and more withdrawn from me. She'd stopped being as responsive to my text messages sometimes and she wasn't telling me she loved me as much as she used to, plus she was quite cold on the physical side of things.
We were in her place one night in January and she broke down and told me she didn't know if she wanted to be with me. We both got very upset, but she quickly changed her mind, and said she wanted to forget about it.
Anyway, it had been worrying me, so I brought it up with her this Sunday. She got very angry and lashed out and said that she needed a break. When I asked her how long this could possibly go on for she said she said she didn't know, and that she can't tell what's going to happen with us. We both agreed that we couldn't go on in limbo like that not knowing what was going to happen, so we decided to break up. I told her that in order for me to heal that I would need time without contact.
I guess my questions are: Does it sound like the type of break up that would come about because of extreme depression?
Could she come back after a period of time alone, realising she wants to get back together?
I suffer from anxiety myself and this has really knocked me for six. Any help or advice would be deeply appreciated.
I noticed her becoming more and more withdrawn from me. She'd stopped being as responsive to my text messages sometimes and she wasn't telling me she loved me as much as she used to, plus she was quite cold on the physical side of things.
We were in her place one night in January and she broke down and told me she didn't know if she wanted to be with me. We both got very upset, but she quickly changed her mind, and said she wanted to forget about it.
Anyway, it had been worrying me, so I brought it up with her this Sunday. She got very angry and lashed out and said that she needed a break. When I asked her how long this could possibly go on for she said she said she didn't know, and that she can't tell what's going to happen with us. We both agreed that we couldn't go on in limbo like that not knowing what was going to happen, so we decided to break up. I told her that in order for me to heal that I would need time without contact.
I guess my questions are: Does it sound like the type of break up that would come about because of extreme depression?
Could she come back after a period of time alone, realising she wants to get back together?
I suffer from anxiety myself and this has really knocked me for six. Any help or advice would be deeply appreciated.