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by no_answer
Sat Dec 28, 2013 4:16 pm
Forum: Other/Miscellaneous Interests
Topic: Good things about today.
Replies: 24
Views: 20620

Good things about today.

I woke up alone. But there is no one to criticize me. It is so good to be in control of your self-esteem. I looked out of the window and at the thermometer. It is cold. But I got plenty of layers of clothes to put on. Somewhere, in the southern hemisphere it is 100 degrees, humid and power outages p...
by no_answer
Tue Dec 10, 2013 4:20 pm
Forum: Other Thoughts, Feelings and Messages
Topic: Feeling at my lowest (Triggering)
Replies: 86
Views: 28093

This is great. Only someone who really suffered much can help others who are suffering. That idea giving gifts and time to the shelter is a very good one. I'd never come up with that. It's awesome you found energy to do it. You may have more energy than you thought you have and putting it to a very ...
by no_answer
Mon Dec 09, 2013 5:42 pm
Forum: Other Thoughts, Feelings and Messages
Topic: Feeling at my lowest (Triggering)
Replies: 86
Views: 28093

I'm sorry to hear that things I recommended didn't help. I really wanted you to get better. Another attempt....horrible! I don't know what to tell you to make you feel better, except just feeling your suffering. Just keep writing, so at least there is a sign you are still struggling, still alive or ...
by no_answer
Mon Dec 09, 2013 5:34 pm
Forum: Pets
Topic: Funny things cats do
Replies: 11
Views: 30319

So sorry to hear about the devastation your cat caused. I never get pets for exactly that reason. Besides the financial damage and environmental impact of unnecessary destruction of the trees, the anguish over what the beast did to abuse your hospitality is hard to bear. But you are not alone. There...
by no_answer
Mon Dec 09, 2013 1:59 pm
Forum: Other Thoughts, Feelings and Messages
Topic: Feeling at my lowest (Triggering)
Replies: 86
Views: 28093

Hang in there.Y ou feel pain, because you are alive...being alive is good...maybe, then pain is good... No thoughts are bad, but some actions are bad. Start watching your thoughts, like someone else is thinking it...just watch them, so that they will pass and change and pass and change. Who's puttin...
by no_answer
Sun Dec 08, 2013 9:00 pm
Forum: Expressions
Topic: A Frozen Moment
Replies: 4
Views: 3155

Frame, I totally relate to this lack of reciprocity on part of others. I do rarely put my own time and effort to a cause outside of my own interest, but get left with a feeling of not receiving the debt with all the accrued interest by the due date I set in my mind. Financially, I've been in a two o...
by no_answer
Sun Dec 08, 2013 8:42 pm
Forum: Other Thoughts, Feelings and Messages
Topic: Feeling at my lowest (Triggering)
Replies: 86
Views: 28093

hello and glad to see you hanging on... you lost a friend, you gained a human being dear to you... if you don't believe in abortion, please don't harm yourself no more, because you are harming the baby too... did you check link like this? http://www.nhs.uk/conditions/pregnancy-and-baby/pages/teenage...
by no_answer
Fri Dec 06, 2013 6:31 pm
Forum: Other Thoughts, Feelings and Messages
Topic: Feeling at my lowest (Triggering)
Replies: 86
Views: 28093

Good night...and try to remember and write down the dreams, too. They are cryptic, but some important messages are in them. You see, you can do everything without writing down, but writing things down has some magical unexplained powers to heal, which was used since ancient times by a few literate p...
by no_answer
Fri Dec 06, 2013 6:16 pm
Forum: Other Thoughts, Feelings and Messages
Topic: Feeling at my lowest (Triggering)
Replies: 86
Views: 28093

You're back at insulting and trying to shake off your "depression", while it is back at haunting you. Why "depression" in quotes? Not out of any disrespect for your feelings, but to make it clearer that what you feel is a normal grieving process following a terrible loss. Do you ...
by no_answer
Thu Dec 05, 2013 8:01 pm
Forum: Other Thoughts, Feelings and Messages
Topic: Getting philosophical about depression.
Replies: 4
Views: 5413

As always, Frame, glad to read your thoughtful reply. I'm being entranced by the geographical analogies. In that spirit, I'm making sense of the "valley" person's tendency to isolate themselves: the limited area of an island restricts the variety of possible elevations, so that the "v...
by no_answer
Thu Dec 05, 2013 7:13 pm
Forum: Other Thoughts, Feelings and Messages
Topic: Feeling at my lowest (Triggering)
Replies: 86
Views: 28093

Sorry if my reply made you suffer more. I myself feel guilty of contributing to a suicide of someone in my family and a few attempts of people who I interacted with. But I know I'm not a perfect person and I didn't mean it. You are not a perfect person and you didn't mean it. Your what doctors call ...
by no_answer
Thu Dec 05, 2013 6:13 pm
Forum: Other Thoughts, Feelings and Messages
Topic: Getting philosophical about depression.
Replies: 4
Views: 5413

Getting philosophical about depression.

I think I read it or heard somewhere: "There is nothing wrong with the depression, but our attitude toward it". The medical and pharmaceutical establishments pathologize every situation where someone feels unmotivated, anti-social and sad for extended period of time. Why wouldn't someone d...
by no_answer
Thu Dec 05, 2013 5:35 pm
Forum: Other Thoughts, Feelings and Messages
Topic: Feeling at my lowest (Triggering)
Replies: 86
Views: 28093

CrazyLady17, welcome to the forum. One of the reazons you don't get too many replies is that the forum by definition is a place for energy-deprived people. Not that there is anything wrong with them or with you, bur reaching out to help someone is sometimes just as difficult as reaching out to get h...
by no_answer
Wed Nov 20, 2013 3:33 pm
Forum: Living with Depression and other Related Health Concerns
Topic: Is there any one out there
Replies: 7
Views: 3595

Frame, I'm objectively more isolated than even I realize according to the occasional comments I receive. Yet, it doesn't mean I really don't need anybody. I do enjoy a company, be it a spiritual, drumming or meditative circle, as well as a deeply intellectual discussion or a meeting with a person fr...
by no_answer
Mon Nov 18, 2013 10:36 pm
Forum: Expressions
Topic: My recent problems
Replies: 15
Views: 7807

Hello and hope you are getting better. The common understanding is that abusers are themselves the people who were abused. I don't know if that is always true, but aren't you curious? Even if you are, you probably will not get any answers from them right now, but maybe it will help you understand wh...

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