Search found 57 matches

by no_answer
Tue Jun 09, 2015 9:39 pm
Forum: Your Story
Topic: im dying and no one cares
Replies: 296
Views: 70113

Death is so scary because it removes the hope for meaningless life (not yours, but generally) to finally have some meaning. On another hand, if life without meaning has no value, does that mean life has no value at all, by itself? I've no answer. I'm asking because I'm dying too, just like everyone ...
by no_answer
Tue Jun 09, 2015 9:12 pm
Forum: Living with Depression and other Related Health Concerns
Topic: Looking for help with my cognitive behavioral therapy
Replies: 2
Views: 1137

Judging yourself negatively sounds like a positive thing to me. Humility is a positive trait. You are not a "successful" self-important narcissist impossible to be around. Plus, you are trying to be more positive and balanced about yourself. Do that, but never loose humility.
by no_answer
Tue Jun 09, 2015 9:06 pm
Forum: Living with Depression and other Related Health Concerns
Topic: Tell me how you feel
Replies: 11
Views: 2135

....really feels like

...really feels like contraction and narrowing of the space and time, nowhere to travel to in the tiny world, nothing to strive for in the face of shortness of one human life, no one to love or hate except for oneself in the world with the only creature of the only specie, no memory to relish in the...
by no_answer
Wed Dec 24, 2014 8:08 pm
Forum: Your Story
Topic: A Life Wasted?
Replies: 8
Views: 1988

Take heart...Your life is wasted, but so it goes for everyone else you know and don't know, myself excluded. Even if you become the president of the world and solve all the social and economic problems, the human kind will forget you if not in 100 years, then in 1000 for sure. Just recall how many p...
by no_answer
Tue Sep 09, 2014 11:30 pm
Forum: Family and Friends of People Living with Depression
Topic: Marrying into Depression & Anxiety
Replies: 15
Views: 7090

4EverMe, the whole idea of clairvoyance and premonitions is quite interesting. When you can forsee something that doesn't end well and get worried about it, can you forsee that after that bad outcome you would still be there re-evaluating it and using it for good ends? Of course, after you benefit a...
by no_answer
Tue Sep 09, 2014 10:25 pm
Forum: Family and Friends of People Living with Depression
Topic: Marrying into Depression & Anxiety
Replies: 15
Views: 7090

Isn't it interesting 4EverMe, how some people can fundamentally change their lives for the better by committing to another (tying a knot or in other ways), while others bring all of their problems into the relationship in hopes it would make them go away and seeing that it made the whole thing worse...
by no_answer
Tue Sep 09, 2014 9:41 pm
Forum: Your Story
Topic: Does anybody else find this forum ineffective?
Replies: 15
Views: 3334

4EverMe, my days are resembling grasping at a handful of tasty grapes off the vine on a vertical wall as i'm falling off the cliff. I've been trying to get on the water in a kayak, windsurfing or stand-up paddleboard almost every day off lately. I don't know why, but being there alone and self-suffi...
by no_answer
Wed Aug 27, 2014 2:48 pm
Forum: New Member Introductions
Topic: searching people who live despite hardships
Replies: 13
Views: 2258

Ayrton, I find your writing style impressively clear and semantically and grammatically correct. But, since you are not immersed in the same English-speaking environment, I'll take a liberty to clarify: the word silliness = in the US means funny, entertaining, although long ago (and even now in some...
by no_answer
Wed Aug 27, 2014 2:19 pm
Forum: Your Story
Topic: Does anybody else find this forum ineffective?
Replies: 15
Views: 3334

Hi, 4EverMe, No I haven't read Dean Koontz. Probably, because of my narrow-minded aversion to most fiction. Although I'm not sure I can give a definition of what "fiction" is. Isn't everything we read to some degree fiction, unless we read it while the narrative is happening simultaneously...
by no_answer
Tue Aug 26, 2014 7:43 pm
Forum: Your Story
Topic: Does anybody else find this forum ineffective?
Replies: 15
Views: 3334

What are my days like? A mixture of reading (non-fiction popular scientific stuff), athletic activities and a social gathering of esoteric or cultural nature now and then. Mostly, my days are filled with long time sleeping and dreaming the dreams I stopped recording and analyzing. So, mostly I feel ...
by no_answer
Tue Aug 26, 2014 7:27 pm
Forum: Your Story
Topic: My Story
Replies: 2
Views: 951

No, you don't sound normal. Normal means fit for society, so that society can rely on you and replace you at any time with another normal. But by not being normal you are irreplaceable, although it makes it harder in many other ways for both, you and society. I know, because neither am I a normal on...
by no_answer
Tue Aug 26, 2014 7:17 pm
Forum: New Member Introductions
Topic: searching people who live despite hardships
Replies: 13
Views: 2258

Everyone is having an incurable decease. Everyone is dying, only at different rates. The difference between us and them, who are (and/or seem) to be happy is that they are not aware of (and/or not displaying) that knowledge. We cannot be like them, because we don't want to be blind or fake. There is...
by no_answer
Tue Aug 26, 2014 7:03 pm
Forum: Your Story
Topic: Lifelong Depression
Replies: 3
Views: 1267

How can they prescribe more than 1 psychoactive drug when most trials research effects of 1 drug only. Are they doctors or henchmen?
by no_answer
Fri Aug 15, 2014 4:06 pm
Forum: Your Story
Topic: Does anybody else find this forum ineffective?
Replies: 15
Views: 3334

...and I sometimes wonder if finding people who can relate to despair I feel does improve things at all... sometimes, i'm afraid it may create a kind of synergy off despair that makes the problem even more insurmountable, even bigger without even a hope of a good outcome... It feels good when someon...
by no_answer
Thu Aug 14, 2014 4:03 pm
Forum: Other Thoughts, Feelings and Messages
Topic: Robin Williams affected me, help
Replies: 6
Views: 1179

Who is Robin Williams to affect you so much? I overheard something in the news talking about it, but I cannot figure out why is he so important while there are really many people with true misfortune whos suffering can still be fixed. Also, don't believe everything news are talking about. They are i...

Go to advanced search