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Thank you for your reply and concern nenkohai. Ive done what you have suggested in the past. Ive done everything that people would and should do in a break up. But for some reason, I cant let her go. She is happy with her new life, she has her new man, her new home and her kids, and is on her way to...

I have reconsidered it. I attempted it in september, and then put myself in the hands of my GP and therapy. Ive loved this girl for 23 years, and finally got it together in January. Then in July she left me for someone else, after telling me all the stuff you do in a deep meaningful fairytale love l...

Ive thought long and hard about this. Ive tried to use alternative paths. Ive tried every possible help and treatment avaliable to me, but nothing has helped. Been five month since I lost the love of my life The thought of being alone for the first time ever on christmas day, while she and the kids ...

Dont let this girl get to you. I totally understand everything you are going through. Im still exactly where you are. And its absolute torture on you. Ive seen my ex a few times, and its killed me seeing her, and the kiddies, and especially seeing that engagement ring on her finger. No contact is th...

Thats good to hear Beth. Huge weight off your shoulders. its the first step to your recovery. You now have to focus on you, and the next step in your journey.
PM me if you need to chat.
Wayne
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Just explain how you are feeling to him. Dont hold back, be honest, and he will offer all the support he can.
Thinking of you.
Good luck.

I know you are right, my head knows you are right. Im just waiting for my heart to play catch up. This is slippery road Im on, and my destination is very much unknown right now. I understand, and envy you, im a very sensitive soul, spent too many years bottling stuff up, wheras now I cant help mysel...

Hi Beth. You are right, the first thing to do is get signed off. If your stepmother is ok with the rent thing, its gonna be a huge weight off your shoulders, and then you can focus on you and the circle you find yourself in. Being at work is not beneficial to you at the moment, so some time out to t...

I can really sympathize with your situation. I find myself in a very similar position. The love of my life left me in July for another man, and Ive 3 month of hell. I really believed everything she said to me (exactly the same stuff you and your ex said to each other), and she just cast me aside. Th...

I know Ill never have her again, she has said as much. But, I wouldnt be true to my heart if I try to move on and love again. Sorry to hear that Beth. Why was she made redundant? Ive spent most of the day crying and sleeping. Wish I didnt go to see my ex, and what would have been my stepdaughter.

Thank you for your reply Beth. I understand what you are saying. But Im man enough to stand up and say I Love Her with all my heart, soul and being. My heart belongs to her, no one else. Ill wait for her, as long as it takes. She is my destiny, my lobster, my only one, the true love of my life. I lo...

Ow :""""""""( Went to see her. was going to have my say didnt get the chance ( she is a chatterbox ) Am home now crying so hard. my chest hurts. she is so happy. its not fair. when do I get my happyness. when. im home alone in this empty house. its over. i can...

Sorry to hear this, not what you need right now. Id seriously consider making a new appointment. Maybe a week from now, or end of the week. You can always cancel if you not in the right frame of mind to go.

Ive popped in a couple of times, when Ive been at my absolute lowest, but people have there own stuff going on.

Ah right, It means getting upset like a child. Its a great euthanisim, Like "Throw a wobbler!, "Chucking the toys out the pram!. Truthfully, I really dont know what I want. She, in a way was my high school sweetheart also. Pined for her for 18+ years, and finally got her, thought my dreams...